Do You Find Yourself

Asking Questions Like...

Why am I not good enough for him? What did I do wrong? What’s wrong with me?

Are you plagued with feelings of confusion, desperation, and fear? Have you been struggling to get what you need from your partner, and frantically googling why you’re so unhappy, only to end up at Cosmo and EliteDaily articles about relationships which were more confusing than helpful?

Yet, nothing that you’ve read has helped with your relationship issues. Most articles focus on how to make your partner happy. They tell you what to do for them, how to cater to them, and they’ve got it all wrong. They’ve got it wrong because the one that is not happy is you.

The only person you can

Actually Make Happy is Yourself

We live in a society that tells us that sacrifice and pain are expressions of love. Every other song on the radio sings a tribute to our tortured version of giving love so we think this is what love is supposed to be. Here is your wake up call to how destructive this portrayal of love is.

Reading articles online and listening to this music about tortured love only feeds into your confusion and frustration.
Is this really what love is all about?
  • A person hurting the one they “love”
  • Repeatedly forgiving someone for doing the same thing to you, over and over again
  • Continuously being in state of pain for the sake of staying together
  • Crying every single day and wondering how much longer this “phase” will last?
  • Being in a paralyzed state because it’s painful to leave and also painful to stay, so you stay stuck

If you find yourself giving and giving without getting much in return…being dragged through the mud and dealing with so much unhappiness and dysfunction that you need help finding the courage to free yourself from this tortured state of living, please reach out. 

I am here to tell you that you are worthy of so much more. You are not the problem my friend. Nothing you do will make your partner treat you any better. You can only control yourself and how you show up. If they cannot love you and respect you, all of you, that is not your fault. I will say it again, this is not your fault. No one deserves to be treated this way.

Every woman who has spent way too much time, money, resources, stress, and heartache, on a partner needs someone to help them out of this pain and suffering.

You need someone who will:

  • Help you see a way out
  • Show you how to build courage to leave
  • Support you each step of the way
  • Remind you that you are worth so much more
  • Be the non-judgmental shoulder to cry on
  • Show you a better way to live

I am here to be that person for you. I know firsthand how devastating it can be to live this way. I also know how challenging it is to leave. There are so many unknowns and getting through each day is just so hard that you don’t even know how you could possibly build the courage to change anything.

I want you to know that you do have a choice. You can stay or you can leave. No matter what you decide, there are things you can do to maintain your sanity (because I know this feels like you’re going crazy), stop torturing yourself, and realize that you are only in control of your own feelings, not someone else’s.

Living with a partner who is never happy no matter what you do, can have you questioning every single detail of your life.

My turning point was when I got a glimpse into my future. It terrified me. It shook me to my core. That is when I decided I was done. That was my wake up call. And my hope is that this is YOUR wake up call. You do not have to continue suffering.

Let me help you stop continuing to hit dead ends when all  you want is one healthy, long-lasting relationship.

Let me help you figure out why you let your partner play games with your heart. Let me show you that this isn’t what you deserve by any means. Let me hold your hand through ending this even though it feels like it’s the hardest thing ever. Let me help you get some clarity when your mind is telling you that you’re done with this and your heart is keeping you there.

If you can’t clearly ask and get what you want and need from a romantic partner and you’re staying because you think you must help your partner change, I want you to know that I am here to help you get clear on all of this.

My goal is to empower you to move forward and embrace the fear, help you believe that you are not broken,  and show you how to love yourself more than you have ever loved yourself before.

I want to help you stop putting up with the unacceptable in your relationship. Are you ready to put yourself first? I am here to help you. Start changing your life today. I promise, you will not regret it.


Don't Pass Up The Opportunity

To Start Living a Better Life Today

My life changing program is for you if you want to:
  • Experience real change
  • Understand why you chose this relationship and how to choose better
  • Understand why you think this unhealthy relationship is what you deserve
  • Break the destructive cycle of giving all of you for bits and pieces of inconsistent love
  • Be better for you and for your kids
  • Learn what the real problem is, face it, and start healing yourself

This work is not for the faint of heart but for the woman who is tired of being tired  And tired of pouring all of her love into a relationship that is excruciatingly painful, the woman who is done feeling worthless.

This is the opportunity for your turning point. I offer the tools you need to change and avoid years of hurt, anger and regret. Take the necessary steps to become better for you. Start feeling less like a prisoner in your relationship now, realize this is not the way to live.

It is time for you to walk away and never look back or you will wake up one day and wonder where the hell  your life went. Don’t let that be you.

Don’t waste another second wondering if you can do this, I am here to help you. Don’t settle. You are worth more! Don’t be afraid to speak to someone.

Are you ready to say, “I’m NOT doing this anymore” and mean it? Go ahead, say it. “I’m NOT doing this anymore”. “I’m worth so much more”. “I don’t deserve to suffer like this”.

Say this to yourself as many times as you need to in order to believe it. And when you’re ready, book a no cost, no obligation call with me to help you prepare for the journey of changing your life.

You can do this. You are worthy. You are loved.

Whenever you’re ready, I am here.

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